Visiting your gynaecologist isn’t always easy. Even though reproductive and sexual health are essential parts of overall wellbeing, many women feel hesitant or embarrassed to ask certain questions — often fearing judgment or awkwardness. But open, honest conversations are the foundation of good healthcare. Your women's gynecologist is there to provide guidance without judgement, helping you understand your body and make informed decisions.

Below are some of the most common questions women are afraid to ask — and the honest, reassuring answers every woman deserves to hear.

Is vaginal discharge normal?

Yes — discharge is a healthy part of how your body cleans and protects itself. It can change throughout your menstrual cycle due to hormone fluctuations. Clear or white discharge with a mild scent is usually normal. However, if it has a strong odour, is greenish or yellow, or is accompanied by itching or discomfort, it may indicate an infection. In that case, book an appointment with your gynaecologist for testing and treatment.

Why does sex sometimes hurt?

Pain during intercourse (known as dyspareunia) is more common than most realise. It can be caused by vaginal dryness, pelvic floor tension, hormonal changes (especially after childbirth or menopause), infections, or even emotional stress. The good news is that it’s treatable — your gynaecologist can help identify the cause and suggest solutions such as lubricants, pelvic floor therapy, or hormonal support.

How much bleeding is “too much” during my period?

Every woman’s menstrual flow is different, but if you’re soaking through pads or tampons every hour, passing large clots, or your period lasts longer than seven days, that’s considered heavy bleeding. It may be linked to conditions such as fibroids, polyps, or hormonal imbalances. Your doctor can perform an assessment and offer management options tailored to your situation.

What if my periods are irregular or have stopped completely?

Irregular cycles can be caused by stress, rapid weight changes, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), thyroid issues, or perimenopause. If your period suddenly stops and you’re not pregnant, it’s worth investigating. Early diagnosis allows your doctor to address underlying issues and protect long-term reproductive and hormonal health.

Is it normal to have a low sex drive?

Yes, libido naturally fluctuates throughout life — and factors such as stress, fatigue, relationship dynamics, and hormonal changes can all influence desire. But if your sex drive has noticeably declined or is affecting your wellbeing, your gynaecologist can help identify potential causes, whether physical, psychological, or hormonal, and recommend appropriate support.

Should I be worried about odour “down there”?

A mild, natural scent is completely normal. However, a strong or unpleasant odour may signal bacterial vaginosis, yeast infection, or other imbalance. Avoid scented washes or douching — they can make things worse. Instead, see your gynaecologist for an assessment and appropriate treatment.

How can I bring up embarrassing topics without feeling judged?

It’s completely understandable to feel shy, but remember: your gynaecologist has heard it all before. No question is too small, awkward, or strange. Their job is to provide compassionate, evidence-based care — not judgement. Preparing questions ahead of time can also make appointments feel more comfortable and productive.

Your reproductive health deserves open, shame-free discussion

By asking questions — even the uncomfortable ones — you take an active role in your wellbeing. A trusted gynaecologist can empower you with the knowledge and care you need at every stage of life. If you’ve been putting off an appointment or have concerns you’ve been too embarrassed to ask, book a consultation with a women's gynecologist today and get the answers you deserve.